On Forced Socialising

10 Sep

Forcing people to do anything can sometimes result them in rebelling against it.

At least that is the case in my situation.

Every time someone forces me to socialise or comes over to me and forces a conversation when all I want to do is be alone causes me to go into my alone place and want to be left alone even more than I did before. I know I can’t control other people but I want them to take a hint and leave me alone when I want to be left alone. Please.

Socialising is difficult for me because I tend to enjoy my own company more than the company of big groups of people I hardly ever talk to or who talk about awkward things or just groups of strangers I have never met.

This problem I have with socialising is part anxiety and part-I haven’t had a proper hanging out-chatty friend in years (5?) and so i’ve done a lot of things by myself and therefore get anxious when people are around me or try to help me because where were they when I needed help a few years ago? Not here that’s where. And so I need to adjust my brain to let other people help but it won’t!

So please respect not only my space but also everybody on earth who wants to be left alone please, we all have problems and situations and sometimes just NEED to be left alone. Thank you.

-T

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